What Women Can We Look Up To?

I recently read a review on the tv show "Mob Wives." The review was saying how women now-a-days ahve absolutely NO CLASS! When you look at the behavior that the women on TV display they all act as little kids. They think that everything has to be done their way or not all. In the show Mob Wives, the women are all spouses of 'gangsters.' They put their children through all of the drama and conflicts that comes with being married to a mob member. Some of these children suffer from the drama. I get disgusted when i see the way they act and present themselves. They curse everyone out and dress as if they're still 22 years old and going to the club. A classy women doesn't expose herself to the world and use inapprpriste language in her daily activity. I think that these reality shows are terrible to display to the youth, because TV is where people learn 50% of anything they know. I would hate to see my generation of young ladies to develop into the loud, screaming, money hungry women we see on TV. Women who I blieve set a great example for women, as far as entertainment, are: Oprah, Queen Latifah, Monique etc. These women act civilized and don't scream and curse on TV. They have what is almost an 'endangered characteristic' to find in women.... CLASS. I would like to know: Why it's so hard for girls to have respect for themselves and other people?? How do we put an end to the terrible behavior that our women are developing??